18 months.

always in motion

Whew, three months just flew by without a blink! Luka is now 18 months old, and his baby features are dissolving into a more mature little boy. It's exciting to witness, but still makes me a little wistful. He is doing great though, and learning something new every day.




 
he has a new guitar with strings like daddy's

His 18 month well visit went well, and his head circumference did finally grow since the last visit. So no follow up MRI for that! His numbers are still quite small though, so it looks like we still need to work hard at bulking up our preemie. As of last week Lu is 18 Lbs 10 oz and 29.5" tall. In addition to making sure he eats a good variety of healthy vegan foods, I am also adding as much fat as I can to his food. Flax oil in his sippy cup of soy milk, a drizzle of olive oil on just about everything he eats, nut butters, avocado... same old story. Some days his appetite is amazing, other days he barely wants to eat. But overall, I would say he isn't terribly picky. Luka is a fruit monster, too. The kid can devour a cup of watermelon chunks in mere seconds! Pretty much all fruit is on his love list. When we are in the produce section of the store, if he sees the peaches, he insists on holding one while he's riding in the cart. Then when we get home and he sees the peach, he begs to eat it. Who am I to argue? Ha.




 He tries real hard to put on his own shoes, but he isn't there just yet

Luka has a very independent nature.  He wants to do absolutely everything on his own. So of course when we don't allow him to do whatever he wants, say for example- plummet off a jungle gym to certain death, then the tantrums happen. Oh my, the tantrums. They are nature's reminder that we aren't in infant-land anymore. Overall, Lu is still a very happy kid.






Luka's sleep has gotten way crazy lately, with waking up 2-3 times a night and refusing naps. It's the classic 18 month sleep regression, I guess. That, or just being uncomfortable from the huge crop of new teeth pushing through his gums all at once. That's enough to make anyone cranky. We are hoping for a turn around back to good sleep very soon.

 I feel like I was just starting to get used to all this baby stuff, now the rules have changed. But that's okay. I will figure it out all over again. I am a vegan snack-toting, nose-wiping, sleep deprived momma. And that's how I like it. (...I need a nap, please)

 

15 months.

As of yesterday, Luka is actually 16 months old! So far his summer has been all about new skills. He finally got the hang of walking right at 15 months, and now he runs around like it's effortless. New words can be heard through the almost constant babbling, "three", "green", "blue", "this", "that", "baaa" (like a sheep in one of his books), and "get" (trying to say guitar) are his latest words. When his dad walks in from work in the evenings, Lu gives him a hardy round of applause. I admit I'm a tad jealous over that one.





Lu went swimming for the first time, with his cousins. He was apprehensive at first, but he soon took to it really well. Lots of splashing and pool toy munching ensued.



At his 15 month well visit, we discovered that Lu is now 18 pounds and 29" long. So he's grown two inches since his last visit! His weight still isn't very high, but for a preemie with his own chart to go by, his doctor is okay with his weight. One issue he has is his head circumference did not grow at all, and has only grown very little since his 9 month visit. His doc said that some kids just have smaller heads, and since he is meeting his developmental milestones, we probably don't have much to worry about. She wants to check him again in another month just in case, and if his head still hasn't grown then he may need an MRI (or was it a CT scan? A scan of some sort...)to make sure his head is okay. We are trying not to worry. And he is developing so well, it's easy to forget about the head thing for now.



Luka has had several colds and even the flu in the past year, but a few weeks ago he was so terribly sick that we just didn't know what to do. He had a super high fever for five days, and was so pitiful he didn't want to play, walk, or even move at all. He pretty much laid in our arms moaning for almost five days straight. It turned out to be roseola, a common childhood illness. He was diagnosed with an unnamed virus until the telltale roseola rash appeared at the end of the sickness. Before the rash appeared we had him at the doctor four times in one week. It was so sad. I know we have his whole life to be worried about various illnesses, and whoa am I not looking forward to that. My heart was hurting so much not being able to help him feel better. Poor little guy. But he's all healed up for now.



Luka's appetite has increased lately, and he is enjoying feeding himself more and more. Some of his common foods as of late:

-oatmeal with flax oil and fruit mixed in
-toast with almond butter or peanut butter
-bagel with vegan cream cheese
-fruit and veggie protein smoothie
-pasta with olive oil and nutritional yeast
-tofu scramble
-peas coated in coconut oil
-bananas, bananas, bananas
-bananas
-veggie burger patty
-still lovin' the avocados
-anything we are eating
Smoothies are a real life saver when Lu isn't feeling up to eating a lot. I can blend together just about anything and serve it to him with a straw, and he will drink it up. A typical smoothie- banana, frozen berries, rice protein, flax oil, soy yogurt, handful of spinach or kale, almond milk. Blended until smooth, a super meal!

Life with Lu continues to challenge and amuse us. He is fun, he is frustrating, he is adorable, he is smart, he is our kid.

14 months and Mother's Day

So much has happened in Luka's world over the past six weeks! Ken and I decided to close our business, so Lu and I have been together at home every day, rather than together at work everyday. The entire household seems less stressed now. It really is so nice to be able to give the kid my full attention all day, instead of being torn between he and work related projects. I get to wake up to his smiling face and ridiculous hair and not worry about how to find the time to answer emails, pack orders, and order inventory in between baby duty.

 
"Mama, why is my hair so ridiculous?" You were just born that way, sweetie.

Speaking of hair, we did get Luka's hair cut a few weeks ago. But not too much! Just enough to get it out of his eyes. I kept a curl in a little plastic baggie for safe keeping.


Unimpressed with the whole experience

When I say that I stay at home with Luka, it's not completely accurate. We are out doing things all the time. I try to keep him busy and active with kid related things, so I joined a play group with kids his age.  We go to baby music class, park play and stroller walks, meetups at parent's homes, and more. It's so nice to have something to keep Luka engaged so we aren't just sitting at home playing with the same toys all the time. Plus, I enjoy talking to adults! A win/win for all involved. Luka loves baby swings, so we find ourselves at the park whenever the weather is nice.


He couldn't possibly be happier

 
Dramatic swinging

Lu just started walking a little bit as of last week. He isn't adept at it quite yet, but it's fun watching him try.

Our little baby is turning into a toddler! *sniffle*


Snacking with Eric the Teddy

This weekend will be my second Mother's Day as a mom. This time last year I was so exhausted and nearly brain dead from lack of sleep, and completely unsure of myself as a parent. This year I feel much more confident (most days), and I sleep a bit more, too. One thing hasn't changed, and that's my deep, pure love for this little goofball.




xoxo

13 months: Feeding the baby, part II

Sorting puffs.

Luka's eating habits changed pretty rapidly by 12 months. I knew it would happen around that time, but I have to be honest; the idea of him gaining most of his nutrition from solid foods rather than from his usual formula scared the pee outta me. Solid food? As in, the stuff he wears and smears on things? But it was a relief to learn at his 12 month well visit that his doc didn't recommend yanking his bottle away completely, just reducing the amount of formula and increasing his "real" food. So now he gets 16-20 oz. of formula, plus breakfast lunch and dinner. 12 months is also where whole cow's milk is typically introduced, but of course Lu gets a variety of plant milks instead. So far his favorite is almond milk.

The kid has a great palette! He will eat most anything that he can self feed. Since he's still so preemie teeny, his volume isn't that large. We just let him eat until he doesn't want to anymore, and it's working out fine.


wearing soy yogurt

I'm still working in a larger variety of foods for him. Here are some examples of what Lu eats for meals so far. He will usually have more than one food listed per meal, to keep things square.

Breakfast: 

Oatmeal or multi grain cereal with pureed fruit add-ins, like apple sauce, mango, berries, etc.
Banana chunks (his absolute favorite food)
wheat bread pieces with a very light coating of nut butter (peanut or almond)
Oatmeal with peanut butter
non-dairy yogurt, any flavor (another big favorite)
Fruit smoothie with rice protein

Lunch and Dinner:

crumbled baked tofu
pasta pieces with tomato sauce or nutritional yeast sauce
veggie burger pieces (for store bought, we like ones made of actual vegetables, like Dr. Praegers and Sunshine Burgers)
broccoli tops coated in flax oil
spinach, peas, carrots, all mashed or pureed
mashed potatoes (sweet or white)
edamame, cooked soft
rice cooked in veggie broth or a vegan cheesy sauce
falafel balls, crumbled
lentils, white beans, black beans, pinto beans, corn

Here's his general eating schedule:

6 oz. bottle upon waking between 7-8am
breakfast with plant milk from a cup around 8:30am
5-6 oz. bottle for snack before nap between 11am-12pm
Lunch and 5 oz. bottle between 2pm-3pm
5 oz. bottle for snack around 4pm
Dinner with plant milk from a cup around 5pm
6 oz. bottle before bed, between 7-8pm

 I feel like I'm stuffing him all day long! But he doesn't eat huge portions at all. We also let Luka taste almost anything we are eating, if he shows interest. He loves to share smoothies with us.  Especially if there's a straw involved! For the sake of convenience and also for a larger variety of food, we still keep some organic baby food in jars around. And the organic ones in pouches are really easy for feeding Lu away from home.

What are your favorite toddler foods?


a toddler?! when did we get a toddler?

one year.

Luka John Joseph turned one this week! Amazing. If you would have asked me a year ago if Lu would make it to his first birthday healthy, happy and "normal", I would have said, "enough with the questions- we're on our way to the NICU to gaze longingly at our new baby".



Luka is a really cool little baby if I do say so myself. We had a birthday party for him at Gymboree, and he had a blast crawling around and playing with his guests.











While I'm not normally keen on Lu having sugar at all, I did want to make him a smash cake. I made him a single layer banana cake with vanilla buttercream (all vegan, of course), and his hands were in it the second the cake was placed in front of him. And as I suspected, he didn't really eat any of it. He smashed some frosting into his mouth, made a sour face, then seemed irritated by the stickiness of it all. Ha.





Since the boy is 12 months now, we have been introducing more chunky foods. So far he has liked most everything as long as he gets to feed himself. Even chunks of avocado! Recent favorites are pasta rings (both semolina and brown rice) covered in pureed tomatoes and spinach or nutritional yeast sauce, smooshed blueberries, broccoli tops, tofu, white beans, wheat bread, and more. He also likes self feeding chunks of coconut oil. That's really messy, but makes for a nice smelling baby. Oh, the messes he makes.



Lu enjoys helping out at work. and by "helping", I mean crawling all over the place, making messes and trying to hurt himself on everything. Time to pad him up with packing material!





I have to admit, this year has been one of the most challenging of my life. Raising a little human is no joke, man. But getting to know our beautiful kid is completely worth the stress.



I can't imagine my life without you in it. Thanks Lu.

10 months.

10 months?! How did that happen? This kid has changed so much over the past few months, that we can hardly keep up with his milestones. Luka is completely crazy and hilarious. Now that he's learned to pull up on things, it's all he wants to do when he's awake. And sometimes when he should be sleeping!


He laughs, squeals, and babbles every second of the day. He's so dang busy.



Some new foods introduced recently have been: zucchini, broccoli, couscous, quinoa, pumpkin, cinnamon, and chunks of avocado and wheat bread. And he likes avocado much better now than when I used to puree it. Yay! His favorite are still orange colored foods, though. Sweet potatoes, butternut squash, and carrots rule his solid food world.

One of Lu's christmas presents from his grandparents was this fresh food feeder. It's a pretty cool gadget. Just put whatever fresh food inside the mesh bag, and let the baby chew it. The food comes out of the holes very small, so no choking. He likes eating bananas from it best so far.



And speaking of christmas, Lu's grandparents also took him to see santa. They said he wasn't scared at all, and Lu touched his beard. Ha.



The kid got his two front teeth for christmas, but I haven't been able to get a good picture of them. There has been drool galore, though.



Luka loves having books read to him, crawling around, and laughing with his daddy. That, I think, sums up his happiness. Such a smart kid.

nine months.

Nine months. That is just crazy. Luka has had some more great milestones happen over the past month. He crawls (really fast!), he can get to the sitting position on his own, and he is starting to pull up on things, too. He also recently started babbling the "bababa" "mamama" and "dadada" sounds.


pulling up like a big kid

Oh, and two teeth!!



Happy boy!


And the saddest monkey ever. On Halloween:


Luka's solid food list is growing, and he is slowly starting to get the hang of picking up food with his fingers. Finger foods so far have been peas, fruit puffs, and crumbled tofu. He can handle a sippy cup really well now too, but he doesn't actually drink much from it. He mostly chews on the spout. More pureed solids include: lentils, raspberries, peaches, pumpkin, blueberries, and others.



Miles the cat follows the baby around wherever he goes, and Luka loves it. He's always crawling around with Miles and trying to pet him. It's pretty funny.


a sweet boy in flight

Luka has even slept through the night a few times on his own, which is so cool. We still feed him once in the night if he wakes up for it, because he's a tiny little sprout. He's growing well though, and his pediatrician is happy with his rate of growth. He made it to the 1% in weight finally at 15 lb 7 oz.

What a crazy nine months it's been so far. Full speed ahead to having a one year old. Whoa!